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Mikketz: Call Waiting.  December 8, 2018

Rabbi Randall Konigsburg

 כא וַיֹּאמְרוּ אִישׁ אֶל-אָחִיו אֲבָל אֲשֵׁמִים אֲנַחְנוּ עַל-אָחִינוּ אֲשֶׁר רָאִינוּ צָרַת נַפְשׁוֹ בְּהִתְחַנְנוֹ אֵלֵינוּ וְלֹא שָׁמָעְנוּ עַל-כֵּן בָּאָה אֵלֵינוּ הַצָּרָה הַזֹּאת.
They said to one another, “Alas, we are being punished on account of our brother, because we looked on at his anguish, yet paid no heed as he pleaded with us. That is why this distress has come upon us.” [Gen. 42:21]
Consider:
 
Perhaps no scream is more famous than the one portrayed in Edvard Munch’s painting popularly known simply as The Scream. …
The original full title of the painting is Der Schrei der Natur, The Scream of Nature. … He describes the inspiration for the painting as follows:
I was walking down the road with two friends when the sun set; suddenly, the sky turned as red as blood. I stopped and leaned against the fence, feeling unspeakably tired. Tongues of fire and blood stretched over the bluish black fjord. My friends went on walking, while I lagged behind, shivering with fear. Then I heard the enormous infinite scream of nature.
The figure who seems to be screaming is actually reacting to another scream, and he is striving not to hear without success—covering his ears in a vain attempt to block out the shrieks that assail him. His mouth is open wide with shock and terror. … His cries must seem to others to be those of a madman, because they are oblivious to the cause of his terror. Munch brilliantly expresses this by using a visual medium to depict an aural event. We can imagine the scream, but we can never hear it; a wall of silence stands between us and the anguished figure in the foreground of the painting.
In Parashat Miketz we read of another cry that was not heard. Upon recognizing his brothers, Joseph accuses them of being spies. … He then relents and requires only one of them, Simeon, to remain as hostage while the others bring food to their families and then return with their youngest brother. After their release the brothers ruminate on the cause of their adversities. “They said to one another, ‘Alas, we are being punished on account of our brother, because we looked upon his anguish, yet paid no heed as he pleaded with us. That is why his distress has come upon us’” (Gen. 42:21).
As he pleaded with us. We are thunderstruck: we, like the brothers, never heard Joseph’s pleas. We accepted the narrative as it was recorded in Genesis 37; the brothers strip Joseph of his clothes, cast him into a pit, consider letting him die and finally sell him into slavery. We hear not a word from Joseph. And yet, if we think for a moment, we realize that of course Joseph must have spoken. He must have protested, screamed, begged, perhaps even cursed. … The Genesis 37 narrative is told from the brothers’ perspective. … No need to consult your prospective victim. And after casting him naked into a pit you can always decide upon his ultimate fate over a satisfying lunch—“then they sat down to a meal” Joseph’s screams are just background noise for the brothers; they hear it but it does not stir them.
In Genesis 38, the brothers, after so many years have passed, finally open their ears to Joseph’s cries. It is as if the sounds have been frozen in time and now come rushing in to fill the brothers’ ears. The aural experience of hearing happened long ago; now the listening begins. To truly hear those cries must have been unbearable for the brothers; in that act they were acknowledging Joseph’s humanity and therefore their own inhumanity in being indifferent to his suffering.
And we finally hear Joseph’s screams as well, inserting them into the narrative we know so well. And we acknowledge that we are co-conspirators in our willingness to imagine the story of Joseph’s sale without the inclusion of Joseph’s voice. … And so now we must tell ourselves the story in a new way, one that includes Joseph’s heartrending cries. …
Some cries, like those of a child with loving parents, are heard at once. Some are resisted for a short time and then acknowledged, as when lovers quarrel. Some cries are left unheard for years, even decades, like those of Joseph. Some cries, like Munch’s scream, remain frozen in time, always being sounded, never being truly heard.
And yet it is Munch’s cry of nature that we most need to hear in this dangerous hour. Melting ice caps, bizarre weather—in so many ways the earth calls out to us, “You are killing me!” We may choose not to hear it. But I shudder when I think of the day upon which we will look at a devastated planet and say—if we are still alive to say it—“Alas, we are being punished because we looked upon our planet’s anguish, yet paid no heed as it pleaded with us.” [ Eliezer B. Diamond, Rabbi Judah Nadich Associate Professor Of Talmud And Rabbinics , in JTS Torah Commentary, Mikketz, Posted On December 07, 2018 / 5779 ]
 
 
Think About It:
1.       Why is it that sometimes we don’t hear the cries of those who are close to us in the moment? Why is there a delay from the time we hear the cry until we understand their pain?
 
2.       Why is it so difficult to hear nature scream? Why might we close our ears to its cry?
3.       What can wake us up to the cry of another? What will it take to wake us up to nature’s screams?
 
Teaching:       
A Rabbi once taught “I learned about love from two drunken peasants. They were sitting in a tavern and one said to the other, “Ivan, do you love me?”  The other replied, “Of course I love you, we have been friends for years!” Said the first man, “Ivan, do you know what hurts me?” “How can I know what is hurting you?” “How then can you say you love me if you don’t know what hurts me?”
Said the Rabbi, “only when we can feel another’s pain can we say our hearts are open to love another.

 

Sermon given by Rabbi Randall Konigsburg at Beth Sholom B’nai Israel on Saturday, December 8, 2018

Mon, March 18 2019 11 Adar II 5779